So I changed my name at 41
This beautiful photograph is taken by Jen Downer. Portland friends, HIRE HER IMMEDIATELY. I like it when things happen effortlessly. When the stars align and the universe conspires and it all just flows with ease and grace. But mostly it feels like I’m...
Rage, power, and dignity
This beautiful photograph is by Anne Simone. Listen. I love you. I believe you. You are not crazy; you are sane in a crazy world. The women I love most in the world are grappling with their rage. Their rage is correct, justified, and healthy. But most of my clients...
Growing the fierce maternal in you
The other day I woke with a heavy feeling in my chest and sick dread in my belly. That email. It was sitting in my inbox, emanating doom. I’d seen it ping into my phone the night before when I’d checked the weather. At least I’d had the good sense to NOT open it...
Even first responders get days off
So! Last week I told a very dignified story about a river, and sharp rocks, and the moral was BUY THE DAMN RIVER SHOES and you can read that right here if you missed it. I heard back from so many of you who wrote me saying, “Ohmygoddess!!! This is SO...
7 Ways To Change The World
WHOAH NELLY what a week. For starters, America is making concentration camps for children, cozying up to brutal dictators, and totally fucking up the valiant remaining threads of our working democracy. My country’s supposed leader picked a fight with Canada this week,...
Hey there, I'm Katherine.
I've got five kids, I'm a queer feminist, and I just might be the only life coach in the world who doesn’t believe in the Law of Attraction.
I write things for women with big, gorgeous, COMPLICATED lives.
I help women become epic fucking badasses... but I still retain my right to cry at every diaper commercial ever made.
